It's a game kids. That's all. As I've always told the beginners who get too intense on winning, "I won't tell you not to want to win, some people are driven and that's how champions are made but, if I see you ten years from now in a supermarket and you have a baby on one hip and a few in tow and everyone is happy and healthy you've won."
She'll always be a trials rider. It's not something you can just get out of your blood but it does point out the weakness of the sport when top competitors have to quit just to make a living.