Sorry I didn’t mean to be rude, but it does help other buyers and sellers to realize there are people just out for there cash!
A good way round living to far away is with the aid of a forum like this, ask someone local (& neutral) if they would be willing to have a look? (May cost you a few quid for there time but worth it in the long run)?
Part of my job is selling expensive items on ebay, and there are a lot of scammers out there, ebay does little to help when the st*t hits the fan!